My Holiday Movie Hit List

Sunday, November 30, 2014

Yes!! It's beginning to feel a like Christmas which means trees, decor, and lights are filling my house but once everything is plugged in place I start watching all of my favorite holiday movies all the way up to Christmas! I tend to save them just for this time of year, which makes it all that more magical and gets me on a whole new level of crazy Christmas spirit.



Holiday Movie Hit List 

2. Grumpier Old Men, I absolutely ball my eyes out when Grandpa Guastafson dies…breaks my heart every time!
5. Bridget Jones Diary, not actually a Christmas movie but somehow makes it in this time of year…odd
6. Bridget Jones Diary-The Edge of Reason, because I just got done watching the first one
7. Christmas Vacation, like on constant repeat! I mean I watch this one maybe 20 times before Christmas!
8. A Christmas Story, "I CAN'T PUT MY ARMS DOWN!" :)
10. Home Alone 2, not as good as the first, but still amusing to a two year old
11. Jingle All the Way, I love that no one ever seems to question Arnold Schwarzenegger accident the whole movie, like it's not unusual to have someone live right next door to you that sounds like the guy from Rocky 4 
13. ELF!!!!
21. The Family Stone, get your tissues ladies!
22. Bad Santa, without the kids of course ;)

What's on your must watch list during the holiday season? I really just love this time of year just for the anticipation of getting to watch movies that I really love and have saved for a whole year! Hope everyone is getting Christmas bug like me! I seriously watch some of these movies so much during this time that I can quote almost the entire movie by New Year's…it's an issue I'm working on ;)

Have a Happy Sunday Y'all! 

Playing Catch Up

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Wow, it feels like that past month has flown by and I'm just now getting around to catching up with my life. We are busier than I ever imagined while the hubby has been gone, and from my own doing, the months are just going by but never quick enough till the hubby gets home.

So this past weekend one of my sister-in-law's was getting married so Chrispy and I decided we needed to go for a visit since it was long over due and this would be the perfect time, because everyone would be there! Yes, we used a wedding as an excuse for a little family reunion but the hubby's family is from New Mexico and if you have ever been, you know it takes forever to get around places, and everyone just happens to be so far spread out that we usually end up being the car for hours at a time just to make a quick 30 minute stop at someones house. This time, everyone would be in the same town at the same time, New Mexico problem solved!! :) We were so fortunate to stay with my brother-in-law and his family which turned out to be perfect since Chrispy and his cousin are only 10 months apart in age, making our crazy Momma schedules work.

Chrispy was actually amazing on the the flights to New Mexico…for him. I was a little pissed off at American Airlines, first time we ever traveled with them, because on the website they said a car seat would fit fine in the seats and when I got there the airport employees wouldn't even let me try it out to see if it would fit, they just really didn't want to do more work in their day job than they had too :( Major problem for them not me, since Chrispy is a very "spirited" little boy that would  run laps on the plane. I managed to keep him entertained with movies, cars, snacks, crazy faces, and finally, ordering him coke from the flight attendant (not one of my proudest moments). At one time the flight attendant asked me to ask my son to sit in his seat and put on his seat belt,….I laughed so hard that I was crying. I replied with a simple, "why don't you reason with a two year old and tell me how that goes", she didn't ask for anything from me for the rest of the flight :)


From the moment we landed to the time we took off, it was like a marathon of gathering, playing, and getting ready for a weekend of wedding activities. Not only was it nice to see family but for the male attention that Chrispy has desperately been craving. His Uncle Jon-Jon fit that bill and had two little boys chasing him around the whole weekend :)






Chrispy got some serious loving from family and this was such a nice break for me since the hubby has been gone. I actually got to enjoy a dinner without scarfing it down or eating it cold!!! Amazing!! Did you know when your food is served to you at a restaurant, it comes hot? I know, this is CRAZY!!! :)



On top of the family time, I got to spend the weekend with this guy! OMG! I could eat him alive,…if he ever let anyone hold him! What a stinker! You wait Mr. Jude, I'm coming for you next time :)


With so many sets of grandparents in town for the wedding, my sister-in-law, her Momma, and me got to get away for some much needed girl time and pampering. We started at a Parisian restaurant enjoying all the magic of delicious food and ended with a mani/pedi date…I was so happy!!!


We also managed to squeeze in a fun night out dancing and drinking with some of my favorite people ever!! Lots of love going on here.


The last night there was bitter sweet. I mean, looking at this picture, all the these boys are sooo related!! Just wish the hubby could have been here to contribute to all the "crazy" that went down :(



The plane ride home for us was so different!! Not only was Chrispy Satan's helper, he also threw a total of 20 tantrums, had a blowout, hit me in the face twice (in public), dumped water on me, and called me Mom! We were also delayed for our last plane by 3 hours, at which time I had to somehow get him to take a nap…Ergo it was even though my back killed me and I couldn't move for about 3 hours!













 I managed to get home just in time for the temperature to drop in Ohio to a whooping -10 degrees with below zero winds….SO MUCH FUN!! I felt awful because all I had packed for Chrispy and I were light fleeces thinking it wasn't going to be snowing or this cold. Thankfully a saint came to my rescue and held Chrispy in her warm coat on the shuttle to take us out to our snow-covered frozen car. The driver was so nice and dropped us off right in from of our car, loaded the car, and scrapped my windshield…it's hard to find men like that these days! I couldn't have been more grateful as so many people helped us stay warm and get to our car safely :)



The last few days after a trip we are usually pretty tired and worn out, plus I'm usually trying to catch up on the little things that got left. I also just started Christmas shopping and really have no clue what to get the little man. I ran across this awesome Mini Cooper for him at HomeGoods, but decided that since he already has two vehicles he probably doesn't need a third, right?


I also got the lovely opportunity to fix a dryer. Yep, a dryer. My dryer stopped blowing heat so off to You Tube to figure out what to do and after the better part of a day of gathering parts and watching tutorials, I finally got that baby warming up!! Just call Mrs. Mechanic :)


What I'm most excited about these days is that we get to slow down a little with all the holidays coming up. Though we have a few holiday parties to hit up, we aren't traveling now which gives me a sense of relief since this Momma is so tired of traveling with a toddler on my own. It's totally doable, just hard. So these awesome pancake shapers I found at the Goodwill really made me so happy to know I will be able to use them all season long! Aren't they the cutest things ever?! I got them for a whooping $.79 together!


I also managed to get some decor out on the table…but Chrispy was quick to "dine" at it :)

(The way Apollo is eyeballing that burger you would think I never feed them!)

And I've gotten a new piece of furniture to work on but still really undecided on what direction to go. I am really thinking between a mint green or a coral for a little girl's room, any thoughts?


In all, after having lots of fun traveling we are so happy to be home and getting back into our little routine. I'm sure not before long I will get my "itch" and have to venture somewhere else but for now we are enjoying the home life.

I hope everyone's holiday season is going wonderful with plenty of family time and fun.

And now I leave you with the saddest/meanest face ever of a little boy not getting any Coke from his Uncle Jon-Jon, which I would later find out that he was sneaking him some the whole weekend! All I have to say is karma is a bitch Jon ;)


We'll Get Through This

Friday, November 7, 2014

Seriously, there are no words to describe the moments that Chrispy has uncontrollable tantrums. One minute we are completely fine, playing on the floor with trucks, trains, and cars and when I tell him things like "no" or "stop" because he is about to throw his toy across the room or trying to jump off a counter it becomes a living nightmare. Terrible two's are no joke and anyone who laughs at you when you describe this should be shot…just saying.






Grocery shopping has become a thing I look forward to the most because my child can not stand the thought of being strapped into a buggy while Momma takes her sweet time buying things to eat, so she hires a babysitter ;) Its the only possible solution I have at this point if I even want to be able to feed us from home. I never thought the regression from the hubby's deployment would take an impact on him quit this hard but who was I to know…it's not like we had a child the other million times he has been called away for work.

With all the parenting books, websites, and blogs out there to help me manage with the "terrible two tantrums" I sometimes find myself overwhelmed with the different tactics I could take in order to solve the problem of the death stare/scream…and end up having a little tantrum myself…in tears. Sometimes for me the best solution to these horrible problems we are having are just to hold Chrispy as tight as I can in my arms, usually crying myself, and telling him how Momma loves him and that we will get through this. He sometimes calms down right away from the sound of me crying, which turns into him brushing sweet and gentle short strokes through my hair and telling me "Momma okkkay" and sealing it with tiny little kisses…which makes everything better. Sometimes the holding leads to a full on body convulsion in which I am being kicked, hit, and punched to let him be free of my grasp..either way, we are making it through…I think.

Time outs are slowly catching on as I'm starting to enforce them more regularly, but of course I'm usually sitting behind him facing him in a corner and reminding myself to stay strong. It is a true test being a parent and I can only imagine God gave loving parents this willpower we have to keep on going, even through the times you just want to give up. Truly a parent's love for their young baby is greater than any feeling I've ever had. Tomorrow is another day to start again, to make another impression on him, and to remind him how much you love him. I know I'm just speaking for myself in my little world about how hard it has been for Chrispy, but I remind myself that millions of us military families do this everyday, with children, and pets, and in different countries away from all of our loved one's to help us, and that gives me a wonderful warm fuzzy inside that it obviously is possible, and we'll get through this.

Happy Thursday Day Y'all! :)