Don't Forget the Teacher's at V-Day Parties

When I was teaching English in Japan at a preschool there was nothing better than showing up with a room full of the cutest kids ever bringing little presents. Yes, I know the parents are usually the one's picking them out but it just made it so nice that they thought about me too. Now that I'm on the other side of things and Mr. Chrispy goes to a preschool twice a week I understand completely the gratitude parents have for teachers, or should have for teachers. Just in the few hours I'm able to run errands, workout, or even just do something for me (or do nothing at all), the point is during that time I don't worry because I left them with someone that I know will watch over my baby as I would.

I have developed a huge spot in my heart for the two women that watch over my baby and love him as their own so whenever there is a holiday or something fun, like a Valentine's party, I get all excited knowing not only will I be bringing in treats for all of his friends but I get to do something special for these ladies!

First off, no coffee mugs!! Seriously, unless its like the cutest cup in the world and has a Starbucks gift card in it, don't bother. Baked goods are nice, but they should come with something a little extra, especially if that's what you are giving to the kids as well. I usually aim for things that I would like to receive and if you know your teachers well enough you start to get to know the things they like, so put a little effort into getting to know your kids teachers.

This year I decided to get them both wall wax warmers, wax melts, and I baked them their own individual banana breads with chocolate chips. It's really not a lot, but something out of the box and both will enjoy. I also made sure to write out, in my own handwriting (it's more thoughtful), the recipe if they should try to duplicate it later. Lets face it, I hate getting to love a food from someone but they never gave me the recipe and then there is the game of "please send the recipe" like a thousand times before you finally get it…months later…I have experience!

Remember that these teachers are the one's taking care of our children, teaching them, are not high on the pay scale, and are the one's hosting these little parties in their classrooms so show a little love and give them something for all the hard work because lets face it, not everyone can be a teacher, that is for sure a calling! Can I get an AHEM?!!

And don't forget to make a little extra if you are baking because if your like Mr. Hubby, you get jealous of all the good eats everyone else is getting ;)

What are your favorite gifts to give teachers or coworkers?

Have a Happy Day Y'all!

The Day We Fell in Love….with a Location, and I turned 29

So if you haven't already known, Mr. Hubby and I are pretty well traveled and have seen some beautiful places in the world. We love experiencing new places, even if they aren't the best, just to say we did it! And who knows, one day we might find the place of our dreams to live out our wrinkly years ;)

For my birthday last year we decided we wanted to do a little road trip to Arkansas…I know, really, no where crazy like the Himalayas, which would have been awesome also. I have always read these awesome news articles about people finding diamonds at this old diamond mine in Arkansas and wanted to try my luck at it too for my birthday, I guess I thought the stars would a line and somehow I would magically walk out of there with a huge 30 carat diamond, a girl can dream. So for my 29th birthday we made the trip from Ohio to the Crater of Diamonds State Park in Murfreesboro, AK. It really wasn't too bad of a trip since it only took one day to drive, even with a toddler in the backseat. We made a few stops along the way but managed to get there as the sun was going down.

First off, this little town and the surrounding areas have a lot of camping sites and nature parks so I wouldn't suggest packing for a trip to a Ball if you know what I mean. We ended up staying in a little hotel right on the highway, because that is all we could find open, and decided that was it. This by no means was going to be a glamour trip, we would be spending the majority of the next two days in the dirt digging, dry and wet sifting (you'll understand when you get there), and of course, it would be blazing hot since it was in May. I'm so glad now I opted not to wear my favorite white workout shorts the first day because by the end of it we had to strip off all of our dirty shoes and clothes before we could even sit down in the car, so bring extra clothes and shoes. Also, we had to pack a cooler every day we were out there for lunch since the nearest place to eat is about 10 miles down the road and packed at lunch time and they only served things like nachos and hot dogs at the food stand.

To a toddler this was so much fun! Chrispy literally spent the entire time having a blast! He got to get dirty, dig with his own shovel and help us sift…to a true boy at heart this was amazing! After two days of being hunched over in the sun and no luck finding a diamond we were done…or at least I was….done! The experience is something I will never forget and to be honest, we might do it again one day but next time we want to do it in a RV so we could be closer to the park and little town hidden in the woods.

On my actual birthday which was the second day of digging, I managed to get crazy sun burned, yay me :(, and turns out we were staying in a "dry" county….WTF?!!! Seriously, my birthday is Cinco de Mayo (for the people that don't understand that, May 5th) and since my 21st birthday I have not gone without a Margarita on this day. So my sweet hubby and I decided to drive to the next county which we were told was Hot Springs, just two exits down the road to grab an adult beverage.

So two exits down the road turned into a hour of driving in one direction after the exit sign to the most beautiful, hidden gem, amazing, OMG I can't believe our Arkansas friends never told us about this place, Hot Springs, AK!! We are completely in love with this city on a lake. Seriously, there were boats upon boats all tied up along the side of the highway and restaurants on the lake with docks for customers that want to come in off the lake! We stopped at a gas station and picked up a Margarita for my birthday in a can, we keep it classy folks ;), and drove around for about another hour admiring the lake, the beautiful houses, the awesome little city they managed to keep hidden in the woods that anyone would be happy to live. We are in love!

After visiting this magical destination we decided our next family trip is going to be Hot Springs, we really want the chance to get a good feel for it because we could possibly retire there some day…that is the level of love we have for this place! We said our goodbyes, headed back to the hotel to get some sleep and make the voyage back to OH the next day.

We did manage to stop at the new Bass Pro Shop in Memphis, TN and believe when I say this is one for the books! It is in the shape of a huge pyramid and people actually can stay in the actual store! The rooms are all called cabins and some even have balconies that look out into the store. Once again Chrispy was in heaven and we decided if we could get a cabin we would totally be staying the night there, well, they were booked up and would be for the next year! Oh well, you win some you lose some.

Either way, just another place to add to the long list of "I will visit again one day" and hopeful we can book a cabin for Mr. Chrispy one day. All in all, I did have a amazing birthday! My hubby was home from deployment, Chrispy finally figured out how to ride his scouter, we found a place that could potentially be our forever home, and I got to go dig for one of my favorite things…diamonds!

I love trips like these because they are out of the box in terms of vacations and we love the adventure of the new. Hopeful this year will take us on more little trips.

Have a Happy Day Y'all! :)

Hello, It's me, I was wondering if after all these years (like 9 months) you'd like to meet ;)

No, but seriously, where the hell have I been?! Yeah, I know, I kinda dropped the ball on having a "blog" and all but seriously, the Hubby came home from deployment and I swear when this happens, the life you once had full of "spare time" turns into no time for anything. Also, what most people don't talk about on TV or what many spouses don't talk about (still don't know why) is how it is difficult/time consuming task for the deployed member to transition, and for you to transition as well. Like seriously honey, the dirty laundry does go in that laundry basket…that's why we bought it in the first place…remember?! Oh wait, that's everyday life, but you get the idea, it's hard for two people that have been living apart for months and months, sometimes years, to get back in the groove of having to share your time/space/breathing air again and it can take awhile, even when you dearly love each other.

So, the Hubby coming home was obviously the most exciting thing that happened to us in 2015! Chrispy and I couldn't be more thrilled at his arrival, even though I'm pretty sure he had no idea what was going on the day we went to the airport to pick him up. Either way, having Hubby home is the amazing and we will cherish him here and of course try to live everyday as normal of a family as possible until he has to venture off again, darn military!

His homecoming was magical, and yes, I cried, but only for a second and I am going to be honest, besides how happy I was to see him I was more tearful because I didn't have to "parent" alone anymore…now I get to "parent" and take breaks! Yay baby!

We stood in the airport with little flags and a sign and of course, many people staring us down, some already crying for us knowing that we were waiting for a man in uniform to appear and change our lives. Friends, USO staff, and some other military guys showed up all behind us waiting to see the Hubby also. When he finally came walking out I smiled, pointed and told Chrispy "to look, there's Dada" and he flew out of my arms and went running full speed ahead. It seems like it only was seconds for the hours of preparation of what I was going say and wear. I was of course two seconds behind Chrispy to get my bear hug and kiss, something I truly had been missing for months, human contact.

     

After hello's and congrats and about 10,000 pounds of equipment we were on our way home, to be a family again. Words still do not ever describe the depths of emotions that take place when you see your loved one after such a long absence apart. The fear, excitement, joy, love, and anticipation of it all is almost too much to bare. As hard as it is to be apart, I have never regretted my choice to be a military spouse because I know it is for a cause higher than myself but for the freedom of our country, so…your welcome :)

See what else has been going this past year in posts to follow…..

Happy Monday Y'all!